What I've Learned at the Doorstep

A reflection on listening, learning, and showing up as a neighbor by Elle Burger.

One of the most meaningful parts of this election season for me has been the simplest: walking the neighborhood and talking with neighbors on their porches. And I was very happy to be part of a team that felt the same way I did.

I know not everyone enjoys unannounced conversations, and I’ve always tried to be respectful of that. Every door I’ve knocked on, I’ve approached with a simple question in mind:

“Do you have the information you need to vote in the HOA election?”

That’s it.

No scripts. No pressure. No rehearsed talking points. Just a genuine desire to hear directly from the people who actually live the experience of this community.

I want to share why I chose to do this — for clarity, connection, and responsibility.

⭐ 1. Listening shouldn’t require a microphone

Most of the issues that matter in a neighborhood aren’t things you hear in meetings.

They’re the things you hear while someone is standing in their driveway with gardening gloves still on, or leaning out their front door while holding a dog who wants to say hello.

People shared:

• frustrations about communication

• confusion about processes

• concerns about the culture of our HOA

• appreciation for neighbors who help each other quietly

• hopes for a calmer, kinder community

Those conversations have taught me more in a few months than any policy document could. I know the top priority is improving

⭐ 2. I wanted to talk with people

I wanted to meet people face to face, hear their questions, and answer for myself.

One thing I learned quickly: Most neighbors were not looking for drama. They were looking for clarity, transparency, and someone willing to explain things without heat.

Door-to-door conversations helped remove the fog of hearsay and bring things back to reality. We could talk about solutions and walk through next steps.

⭐ 3. I don’t want to be a mystery to the community I serve

If someone is going to vote for me — or not vote for me — they deserve to know who I am, how I communicate, and how I show up.

Whether someone enthusiastically wanted to talk, or politely declined, I respected it — and I appreciated every interaction.

⭐ 4. This is my neighborhood too

Community is kind of my jam. My kids are just starting to find their independence, and building community here is essential to all of our safety and wellbeing.

I talk to neighbors because I am a neighbor.

⭐ A Final Thought

I’m grateful to everyone who opened their door, even for 30 seconds, even with reservations, even with tough questions.

Thank you for the honesty, the stories, the concerns, and the encouragement.

No matter what happens next, I am happy I chose conversation and connection.