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Not Again: An Analysis of Election Messaging in 2026
An analysis of the president's message—not a rebuttal to every claim in it, but a look at how the argument itself is constructed. This is now. These are being written right now, and we need to decide if this is how we want to be spoken to.
friendsofkenlake
7 hours ago6 min read


Tech Committee Status
This morning, the board added to the 8/18 agenda a non-urgent action related to the tech committee. We are providing as much information as we have here so that members can meaningfully comment.
friendsofkenlake
Aug 177 min read


Jun 16: Choosing Who Gets to Speak
Board bias was on full display at the June 16th board meeting, and it would be disingenuous of this website to pretend otherwise.
friendsofkenlake
Jun 177 min read


More Questions Than Answers
Half of this comment was copied into the community comment document. The second half was not included by the board.
friendsofkenlake
Jun 177 min read


Agree to Disagree
But there is another use of the phrase — one that has nothing to do with taste and everything to do with power. When someone says something false about you, and the response to a request for correction is let's just move on — that isn't resolution. That's a transfer. You absorb the damage. They keep the narrative. The social contract of agreeableness means you're not supposed to say so.
friendsofkenlake
Apr 63 min read


Content and Context: Communication Priorities
This site includes different kinds of writing, each with a specific purpose. Being clear about those purposes helps readers understand what they’re reading, how to use it, and where opinion and analysis fit.
We don’t aim to sound neutral. We aim to be transparent.
friendsofkenlake
Jan 133 min read


What We Did to Avoid ‘Both Sides’
During the election, specific choices were made—under pressure—to prioritize de-escalation, documentation, and long-term trust over short-term vindication. Those choices could be seen in the materials produced and reduced the speed and spread of conflict at a moment when escalation was most likely.
This was containment.
friendsofkenlake
Jan 35 min read


How to Read This Work — and Why It Exists
I have opinions, and I’m not neutral about systems that reward exclusion or punish dissent. I write from lived experience, from documents and records, and from direct involvement in the community issues discussed here. I bring references not to posture as objective, but to show my work — so readers can trace how I arrive at my conclusions and decide for themselves whether those conclusions hold.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 315 min read


Choosing the Story: Who Gets to Comment
Interrupting a speaker during community comment is never neutral. It is a communication act — and it reveals who is allowed to define the story and who is not.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 314 min read


Understanding SaveKenLake: Rhetorical Patterns That Keep Coming Up
DARVO, narrative causality, and moral framing do not tell us whether anyone acted in good or bad faith. They tell us to look deeper for evidence and emotion because of what communication patterns are being used.
SaveKenLake used these communication patterns extensively.
By naming those structures, we make space for better conversations — ones grounded in records, process, and shared responsibility rather than in narratives about individuals.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 314 min read


When Opinion Becomes Accusation:
During the 2025 election season, SaveKenLake.com published a short set of posts to support campaign materials. These included candidate messages, a highlight piece about board work, and a fear-based piece titled “Why Ken Lake is in Danger.” The site has since been removed, but the archived posts help explain how the election narrative hardened and why it became difficult to correct.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 3112 min read


When a Neighbor Can Do No Right
Once a narrative forms about a person, every new action is filtered through it — no matter what the documents say.
This is not about anyone being bad or malicious. It is about how stress and emotion turn into shared stories that shape how an entire community interprets one neighbor.
And once systemic bias takes hold, that person can do nothing right, because the story has already been written.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 11, 20257 min read


Authority and Accusation
Unlike typical HOA communication or even standard political comparison, the letter focused almost entirely on character attacks toward one neighbor, naming him repeatedly across two pages and framing him as manipulative, dangerous, and personally responsible for a long list of perceived harms.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 10, 20256 min read


Not So Fun: A Claim-by-Claim Review with Documentation
Many of the letter’s strongest accusations collapse under their own internal contradictions. Not because of anything outside the text — but because the text itself doesn’t hold together.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 10, 20257 min read


Don’t Vote for This Man: How Election Messaging Escalated
Disagreement is expected in any election, however it is unusual for HOA materials to focus so extensively on a single neighbor’s character rather than on governance issues.
While the first flyer used contrast-based political framing, this second flyer escalated that tone— centered not on competing ideas or visions, but on a series of personal allegations and warnings. Because this flyer significantly shifted the emotional climate of the election, this article looks at the
friendsofkenlake
Dec 7, 20255 min read


Two Groups, Two Flyers
During the 2025 election season, neighbors received two different types of campaign flyers. Many residents later commented that “both sides” seemed equally divisive. Because the messages did not use comparable communication styles—or make the same types of claims—this article looks directly at the communication approaches themselves to assess; how equal were the candidates in this?
This installment focuses on tone, structure, and strategy, without assessing the factual acc
friendsofkenlake
Dec 3, 20255 min read


What the REAL Flyers Said: A Documentation Review of Key Claims
Ken Lake is made stronger when neighbors feel informed, respected, and included. Reviewing the claims made in this election is one way to support that shared foundation. When we understand what was said—and what the documents show—we create room for clearer conversations and more trust across differences. Whatever our perspectives, we all benefit from a community where information is accurate and participation feels safe.
friendsofkenlake
Dec 3, 20255 min read


From Crisis Messaging to Calm Governance
When the tone changes overnight from “existential threat” to “open discussion,” it’s worth asking:
Was the pre-election messaging truly about policy, or about winning? What other choices were made in pursuit of your vote?
friendsofkenlake
Nov 25, 20253 min read


Why the Details Matter: Section 7B
This month, as the board struggled with decisions concerning legal action, I find myself referring back to Section 7B of our covenants, which outlines exactly how the approval process must work.
It’s not a trivial point. It’s about fairness, documentation, and trust. This section protects your homeowner’s rights.
friendsofkenlake
Nov 4, 20253 min read
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